Just because you don't see it. Just because you are not bothered by it now, doesn't mean that it is not there.

"I can't be bothered" is the worst excuse you can ever give to brush away a subject.

Of course you can not bother. But the reason the topic is raised is because somebody IS bothered about it. Sure. Who gives a fuck if that somebody is bothered. Its not your fault. That person is just over sensitive. Its that person's own fault to be bothered by such trivial matters that doesn't bother you one bit.

To not bother is to not do anything to improve, to help or to salvage.
To not bother is to allow the problem to persist.

You tell me you are not bothered simply because you don't care to do anything about it. Screw what I feel.

Get over it by saying " why you bother? I can't be bothered." Yes. you can't be bothered. You can forget that I ever brought up the subject. But I cannot, no matter how hard I try because it continues to plague me.

Like a swell in the throat growing ever so slowly. I will choose to keep swallowing and try to ignore it. Until it seals off my air supply.